They have probably sent you one or called you…creeps on the internet who expose themselves to strangers… Amanda Nechesa found out why, and who they are…

Flash.

Let’s start with a quote from Facebook shared as a meme, shall we?

‘If you don’t call your girlfriend beautiful, some Indian guy on Facebook will.’

It’s a funny meme. Got a lot of laughs. Lots of screenshots. Lots of shares.

But is it really as funny as it sounds?

Thing is, the evolution of the social media has given a lot of creepy men (and women) a platform, a medium where they can hide behind their screens and unleash their demons.

Some of these demons come in form of an Indian looking guy, or that guy with a Muslim name whose profile picture is a small girl or boy, his child maybe? We don’t know.

Are your eyes open?

After accepting a video call from an Indian dude. Can’t sleep.

They send you a friend request, and if you are not the type to double check your friend requests, you end up clicking the confirm button. Give them a few seconds, maybe even minutes; the messenger video calls will come. Let’s assume you’re the type that believes in humanity and you answer that call.

Are your eyes open when you answer it? If they are, babe, if you have never seen a real live dick, with a real live guy holding it, displaying it on your phone, making weird sounds; then this where that kind of your virginity is broken.

And when you take to social media, complaining about it, you are met with other girls, giving their experiences, laughing, cringing. The solution is given out to you simply: Block them. Report them to messenger. Unfriend them.

That simple huh? What about the violation you underwent? What in the world can possess a man to undress in front of a screen, call random girls, wave their dicks in front of her?

Amanda talked to them, asked them why, mmmh, why…?

They are here.

To answer that, I had to undergo through a very dick-filled video call interviews with several of these Indian-looking, Muslim-name bearing culprits.

One, upon being asked why he likes video calling random girls while naked said he doesn’t know, though he likes it, it releases his pleasure. He is twenty-three, never had sex. The reception got bad and he ended the call, then proceeded to text me, asking for a picture of my boobs.

Culprit two bragged about his big dick in the texts, claiming to be single and when asked if he just doesn’t look for the girls where he lives and pursue one and have sex with her instead of looking for long-distance dick pics and video pleasures hang up, and blocked me instead!

Was the question not relevant though? Why don’t they just look for their own girls and fornicate with them like everyone else? Is it because of their strict cultural beliefs?

‘Yes, we have pretty tight beliefs and rules,’ a girl, a Muslim, confirmed my suspicions.

Fornication is a no-no to them. It’s haram. There is minimal interaction allowed between members of the opposite sex. Girls who have sex before marriage are considered immoral, shameful.

More than Creepy Indian dudes

Why Patel…?

But do these guys do this because of their strict religious beliefs? Do they take out their dicks and display it to that girl with a cute profile pic because Amina back at home who he likes cannot spare him a conversation, let alone a kiss?

‘No. I don’t believe they do,’ Salma, the Muslim girl says.

‘These are just immoral guys, who happen to be Muslims or Indians. Our religion, for those of us who practice it protects us from the evils of the world. Do not generalize that the guys send dick pics or naked video calls are only Muslims or Indian. Because even if they are, they can be non-practicing Muslims, or not even Muslims.’

Salma- a not-so-happy Muslim girl.

To confirm her words, I interacted with a guy from the meme shared above, and upon calling him Indian, I was very much corrected that in fact he was Pakistan and not Indian. My bad.

Other comments by Facebook users shook me. Apparently, this goes beyond Indian guys, Muslim guys, beyond even gender.

White ladies

Alex, a guy from the comments, says white ladies are also notorious for these kinds of behavior. Same pattern. Friend request, confirmed Facebook friends, then in the messenger inbox, they share with you links to watch their porn videos.

There was a girl once, African, who video called him naked. I had to ask if he minded that,

‘I don’t mind. Bora asikuwe aggressive sana, and is pretty and smart.’

Alex- man who doesn’t mind.

Well, Alex from Facebook, success in finding your naked Cinderella.

One of the comments however struck a nerve. It was from an Indian girl, and she had typed, am guessing painfully:

‘You guys just experience it online. Guess how it is for us. We live here, with them.’

2 Comments

  1. I find it soo annoying. They are psychos. They will call you even fifty times

    1. So true!!

      Especially kama uko na friends wengi you will get those calls Hadi you just opt to delete your account

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